February 5-11, 2024

Virtue F: We Forgive Frequently

This week, we embark on a profound journey with our children, exploring the timeless theme of forgiveness through the captivating stories of Joseph and the Forgiving Father. These narratives, rich in lessons and emotions, offer a unique opportunity to delve into the heart of forgiveness, understanding its depth and the transformation it can bring into our lives. As we navigate these stories, we invite you to continue these discussions at home, making this week not just a moment of learning but a lasting experience of growth and compassion for your family.

Monday: Understanding Forgiveness

Before we dive into the stories, it's crucial to lay the groundwork by defining what forgiveness truly means. Forgiveness is the process of letting go of anger, resentment, or the desire for revenge against someone who has wronged you. It's not about forgetting the hurt but rather choosing to rise above it, to heal, and possibly to mend relationships.


At Home: Start a conversation with your children about what forgiveness means to them. Ask them to think of a time they forgave someone or needed forgiveness themselves. Discuss the feelings involved and why choosing to forgive can sometimes be hard but important.

Tuesday: The Story of Joseph

We'll introduce your children to the story of Joseph, a tale of jealousy, betrayal, and ultimate reconciliation. Through Joseph's journey from favored son to slave, to the ruler of Egypt who forgives his betraying brothers, children will see the strength and peace that forgiveness can bring, even in the most challenging circumstances.


At Home: Reflect on Joseph's story with your children. Discuss the emotions Joseph might have felt at various points in his life and how forgiveness played a crucial role in his relationships with his brothers. Ask your children how they might have acted in Joseph's place and why.

Thursday: The Parable of the Forgiving Father

This day focuses on the parable of the Forgiving Father, a story that highlights the joy and healing that forgiveness can bring, not just to the one forgiven but also to the forgiver. It teaches us about unconditional love and the open arms with which we should always be ready to welcome and forgive others.


At Home: Share thoughts on the parable and its portrayal of forgiveness and unconditional love. Encourage your children to share if they've ever experienced a moment of forgiveness that made them feel relieved or happy, emphasizing that forgiveness is a gift we give ourselves as much as others.

Extending the Lesson

1. Create a Forgiveness Board

A visual space in your home where family members can write down acts of forgiveness, whether they're seeking it or offering it. This can serve as a powerful reminder of the ongoing importance of forgiveness in your lives.

2. Role-Playing Scenarios

Occasionally, use role-play to act out forgiveness scenarios. This can help your children understand how to navigate complex emotions and the steps toward forgiveness in real situations.

3. Family Reflections

Dedicate time each week to reflect as a family on moments where forgiveness was needed or offered. This can help solidify the practice of forgiveness as a family value and provide a regular, safe space for sharing and healing.

4. Volunteer Together

Engage in community service as a family. Working to help others can broaden perspectives and cultivate a spirit of empathy and forgiveness.

Continue the Journey

This week is a stepping stone toward making forgiveness a cornerstone of your family's interactions and relationships. By exploring the stories of Joseph and the Forgiving Father, and by opening up about personal experiences with forgiveness, you're setting the foundation for a more compassionate, understanding, and forgiving family dynamic. Let this week be the start of a lifelong journey toward embodying the true essence of forgiveness in all your relationships.


Warmly,
Jonny & Danika Jordan

About Biblically Centered

We want to help equip your family with knowledge and conversations for you to live and defend your Christian faith.

In recent years, we kept seeing people with our same background walk away from Jesus. In order to prepare our children for the shifting world and culture, we knew we needed to solidify our children's biblical worldview so they will be prepared for the future.

We know it's important to show your children what it means to "live like Christ." We hope that you are inspired to do that with our Biblical Family Virtues.

We reside in Kansas with our 3 children (ages 7, 5, 3). We enjoy being outside and having occasional dance parties.

Blessings, Danika & Jonny Jordan

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